w e l c o m e


So, we’re working together! Thanks for trusting me with this! I’m so excited to do all of this with you. This guide was tough and can get pretty vague at times because every single wedding is SO different. I hope this helps with getting the ball rolling without being overwhelming.

One of my main goals in life is to make weddings less stressful. I want to see couples having fun and enjoying their wedding day!
So, just because something is in this guide doesn’t mean you need to do it. Don’t feel like you need to stick to any “but this is what everyone does on their wedding day”.

Give this a look-through and let me know if you want to meet in person just to get ideas out there.
I’m happy to brainstorm and make the planning process fun (:



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C o n t e n t

01.
Frequently Asked Questions

02.
HELPFUL LINKS

03.
Random Planning Tips

04.
Timeline Planning

05.
Vendor Recommendations

06.
To Do List

07.
TIPS FOR A STRESS-FREE WEDDING Day

08.
AFTER THE WEDDING




 

f r e q u e n t l y a s k e d q u e s t i o n s


01.

WHAT WILL IT BE LIKE TO WORK WITH YOU?

The Planning Process: All weddings booked include an engagement session so we get a chance to meet up before hand, talk about your wedding plans, and get used to working together. I'm also available to answer any questions via email during the planning process. Feel free to send me pictures with questions or just out of excitement! I’m happy to help with ideas for the wedding day or for your engagement session.

Directing Style: I'll give you as much direction as you want or need, I’ll ask you to check out the scenery, check out each other, ask you to walk and dance and run around, hold hands, and get you talking. I'll be documenting as we go, as you respond to me and to each other. It gets you interacting with each other so I can get those good candid moments while you enjoy each other’s company, whatever you’re doing in the moment, and the gorgeous scenery!

Documenting the wedding: For most of the day, I keep it mostly documentary, just capturing what's happening as it happens, but at some points in the day I may suggest we change up a spot or position - like putting your dress on in a specific spot, etc.

LONG STORY SHORT : I TRY TO MAKE THIS WHOLE PROCESS AS
FUN & EASY AS POSSIBLE.

02.

CAMERAS MAKE US UNCOMFORTABLE, AND WE ARE AWKWARD. WHAT IF WE HAVE NO IDEA WHAT WE’RE DOING?

Literally every single person I have every photographed has said this. I have only ever photographed two professional models in the last 14 years - everyone else you see on my website has been “uncomfortable” in front of the camera. It sure doesn’t look like it, does it? That’s because I photograph them when they ARE the most comfortable. We take our time getting to know eachother, and I find myself acting ridiculous to get real laughs when it’s appropriate.

It’s a fun time, I promise.

03.

DO YOU SHOOT DETAILS AND FAMILY PHOTOS ON THE WEDDING DAY?

Yes and yes.

We talk about what’s most important to you as a couple and what you want photographed the most.
Take time to think about what you want to remember and what you’ll look back at.

// Couple Portraits
// Formal Family Portraits
// Candid Photos of the Day
// Formal Friend Portraits (Bridesmaids / Groomsmen)
// Detail Photos of your Decor & Invitations
// Reception Photos (Speeches, Dances, Cake Cutting, Etc.)

04.

HOW MUCH TIME WILL WE SPEND TAKING PHOTOS ON OUR WEDDING DAY?

This mostly depends on your preferences and timeline. We'll talk to determine how you'd rather spend your time, and plan accordingly based on the things you figure out above.

Some couples don't want to spend much time away from their guests, so we do all their portraits in 30 minutes. Other couples want more alone time for themselves, so we spend 1- 2 hours away from guests doing photo stuff.

I want to make sure you enjoy yourself, so I'm happy to help figure all this out.

05.

WHERE ARE YOU BASED? DO YOU TRAVEL?

I am based in Luray, Virginia - but boy, do I travel. I’ve photographed weddings, elopements, couple sessions, and portrait sessions all over the United States and the World.

Your wedding or photo shoot may or may not require a travel fee, depending on where/when it takes place.
So just get in touch and we’ll figure it out.

06.

DO YOU USE BACKUPS?

Yes, I always bring backup digital gear, and your photos are backed up to 3 different locations!

07. WHAT ABOUT RAIN?

The show must go on! I carry around about 8 umbrellas in my trunk at all times. For a wedding, you can’t really post-pone, so we make it work! Rainy days are my personal favorite, and I’m trying to make them better for everyone else.

For photo shoots, we can postpone if that’s what you want! But I’ve done portrait sessions, engagement sessions, and elopements in the rain and they are epic and romantic and the best thing ever.

Although, if you’re pregnant or prone to getting sick, we can either find an indoor location or reschedule (:

08.

WHEN WILL WE GET OUR IMAGES?

You’ll get a couple sneak peeks within one or two days after your photo shoot and then…


For weddings you’ll get your full online gallery within 6 weeks.
For your engagement session you’ll get your full online gallery within 4 weeks.


 

 r a n d o m p l a n n i n g t i p s



  • Consider renting an Airbnb for getting ready in - it makes for a more comfortable place to be in the day-of your wedding! There’s more there than a hotel room. You can have a full kitchen, a fridge stocked with mimosa-makings, comfortable couches, cool porches, big windows, and a feeling of being at home!

  • If you have a home you love, get ready there! The detail photos and getting ready photos will be full of memories.

  • When planning your ceremony time, go to the venue on a clear day and make sure you won’t have the sun in your eyes, or that your guests won’t be staring directly at the sun.

  • When lighting your reception, think of pretty ways to light it!

    Candles :
    Lining your tables with tons of candles sounds scary and expensive, but you can find cheap candle holders at Walmart and Thrift Stores! These can also be great gifts to give to your friends and family after the wedding. Candles add gorgeous natural light to all of your guests as they’re listening to speeches or watching you dance.

    String Lights :
    You can do waterfall string lights as a backdrop for your tables, string lights above the dance floor, or bordering the dance floor - this especially looks gorgeous outside.

  • Consider dropping the stress of an in-depth timeline. Figure out what’s most important to you on your wedding day and let the rest flow naturally from there.


t i m e l i n e p l a n n i n g


Timeline planning is most necessary if you have a lot going on during your wedding day.

Some weddings only need these timed :
get ready
get to ceremony location
ceremony
family photos
group photos with bridal party
bride & groom photos
reception


where as others need :
bride get ready
lunch
groom get ready
get dress on
first look
couple portraits
family photos
group photos
get to ceremony location
ceremony
couple photos
cocktail hour
get to reception
first dance
dinner served
grand exit

There’s nothing wrong with either of these.
Just figure out which one works best for you. If you fly by the seat of your pants and want the day to happen as it happens without checking off a to-do list, then you don’t need a large timeline full of in-between moments - don’t stress on working on an in-depth timeline and let the day flow naturally.


But, if you want to make sure you get photos of everything and feel like the day won’t flow well if there’s no timeline in place, and you’d be upset if things don’t go according to plan, then a detailed timeline is probably what’s best!

Just think about what would make your day more enjoyable to you.

4 things to take into consideration as you make a timeline - whether it’s a huge timeline or not.

01. SUNSET The first thing to take into consideration is when the sun sets. Look at when the sun sets on your wedding day. See if you can go to your venue / location during sunset to see if it’s earlier or later than it says on Google (trees, mountains, and clouds can affect this) and then you can see where it’s setting. Make sure when you’re standing in your ceremony spot that one of you aren’t staring directly into the sun!

If you’re having a summer wedding, the sun sets around 8pm - 9pm and so you have the whole day to play with. If you’re having a Fall or Winter wedding you could have a 5pm sunset. Make sure your ceremony is ending well before the sun sets. If you want all of your family, couple, and wedding party (bridesmaids/groomsmen) photos before the ceremony, then start your ceremony at least 2 hours before the sun sets. If you want them after the ceremony, you’ll want your ceremony at least 3 hours before.

This isn’t to say we will actually take 2 or 3 hours for these photos, but it gives you a chance to push the ceremony back a little if you need to, and you won’t feel rushed through these photos.

02. IMPORTANT PHOTOS After thinking about what’s most important to you, make sure you have the most time for those moments. So if details and getting ready before the wedding is what you want more photos of, set my start time earlier in the day. If you’d rather have party photos, everyone dancing, and your grand exit at the end of the night, set the bulk of your time at the end of the day. If neither of those matter to you and you’d rather have formal family photos or couple portraits and the ceremony photographed, give yourself plenty of designated photo time before and after the ceremony for photos.

03. CEREMONY & GETTING READY I always suggest that the bride and groom are done with getting ready at least one hour before the ceremony starts. From there, you can add on extra time if you’re traveling from your getting ready location to the ceremony, if you’re taking portraits before, or doing a first look.

04. FIRST LOOK If you’re doing a first look or taking family formals before the ceremony, add on at least another hour. If things are ahead of time, then at least you aren’t rushing. You get the best photos if you’re taking things slowly and have plenty of time for it all.


8 hour coverage
8pm Sunset with no first look

2:30pm
photographer arrives
details are photographed such as wedding dress, shoes, invitations, florals, suit, ties, boutonnieres, etc.
lots of candid shots of bridesmaids & groomsmen getting ready

3:30pm
dress and suit are on, hair & makeup is finished

4:00pm
bride with bridesmaids
+ groom with groomsmen
bride with family
+ groom with family

5:30pm
ceremony

6:15pm
cocktail hour
final group photos with family members
couple photos
group photos with bridesmaids and groomsmen

7:15pm
reception starts

8pm
15 minute sunset photos / run in the rain
the wild party goes on - your dj & caterer can help you with the things you want in your reception

10:30pm
grand exit is photographed
photographer leaves


6 HOUR COVERAGE
8PM SUNSET WITH NO FIRST LOOK

2:30pm
photographer arrives
details are photographed such as wedding dress, shoes, invitations, florals, suit, ties, boutonnieres, etc.
candid shots of bridesmaids & groomsmen getting ready

3:30pm
dress and suit are on, hair & makeup is finished

4:00pm
bride with bridesmaids
+ groom with groomsmen
bride with family
+ groom with family

5:30pm
ceremony

6:15pm
cocktail hour
final group photos with family members
couple photos
group photos with bridesmaids and groomsmen

7:15pm
reception starts

8pm
15 minute sunset photos / run in the rain
party goes on - your dj & caterer can help you with the things you want in your reception

8:30pm
photographer leaves

t o d o l i s t


AS SOON AS YOU’RE ENGAGED AND HAVE A DATE PICKED :

☐ Come up with your idea board for colors and themes you like so you and your friends can keep an eye out for details at thrift stores and online. Pinterest in good for getting a base in place. This also helps when you’re hiring vendors so you can send examples of what you like and already have ideas in place!

☐ Make a list of what’s important to you on your wedding day. Is it the people you’re inviting, the photos, the place, the food?
once you make that list, think about what your style and ideas are. Do you like candid photography or more magazine-style? Do you want a sit-down meal, food trucks, or buffet? Is this going to be very formal, or do you want it to be more casual?

☐ Book your venue and photographer/videographer - they book out the quickest.

☐ Begin looking for a wedding coordinator, dress, suits, hair & makeup artist, dessert, florist, DJ, caterer, etc. that go with what’s important for you! If you want a formal or casual wedding use these words when you’re inquiring with them.

☐ Book your engagement shoot - book it now, but remember you can set it up for any time between now and your wedding! If you want to use the photos for your save-the-dates or your wedding website, make sure it’s scheduled as soon as possible. If it’s just for fun so we can meet up and get comfortable in front of the camera, you can do it up to a few weeks before your wedding!

☐ Send out Save the Dates - only do this if you feel a need to. Not everyone needs save the dates unless everyone is traveling in for the wedding or if it’s a week day wedding or popular date.


3-6 Months Before :

☐ Send out invitations - make sure you have at least one spare with the stamp and address so it can be photographed the day-of.

☐ Think about how you want to spend your wedding day. Is it hanging out with all your ladies and family members? Whoever you want to be spending time with, make sure they have nothing else to do the day of the wedding. Either find a day-of coordinator who can be in charge of setting things up, or come up with a week-before timeline so you get everything organized BEFORE the wedding day.

☐ Begin creating day-of timeline, week-of timeline, & decide on heirloom moments and prioritize those photos as you’re writing your timeline. I’m happy to help you!

☐ Decide on family groupings for portraits

  • Consider hiring me to capture the rehearsal dinner or day-after brunch in order to get photos of family members that won’t be included in formal photos, but that you’ll know you will regret not having photos with them!

☐ Make a list of the food and drink you want on the wedding day - make your wedding day as fun as possible and get that all figured out beforehand!


1 Month Before :

☐ I will send you an email requesting the following information!

  • Complete the wedding questionnaire

  • Submit timeline

  • Pay your remaining balance

☐ Make any last minute purchases

☐ If it’s an outdoor party, start checking the weather and come up with a backup plan incase there’s rain, snow, etc.



Wedding Week!

☐ Gather all the details you want photographed and keep it in a little tote or box so it’s with you on the wedding morning

  • Example: jewelry, hairpiece, handkerchief, wedding bands, perfume, love letter, invitation suite, tie, socks, cologne, hangers for dresses.

☐ Follow your week-of timeline! Get everything all set up before your wedding day so you’re not stressing the day-of and so your week isn’t stressful either.

☐ Pack a day-after bag!

☐ Make sure any piece of clothing that will be photographed are steamed - robes, wedding dress, rehearsal dress, etc. Clothing wrinkles do not look good in photos, and can’t be edited out very well! Do this before the wedding day if possible so you aren’t spending all morning steaming clothes.


A V O I D I N G W E D D I N G D A Y S T R E S S

01.
Give yourself plenty of time for everything - as you’re working on your timeline and you figure out how much time for each thing, give another 30 minute buffer. Not all timelines go exactly to plan! As long as you’re enjoying your wedding day as it is, rather than going from one thing on your timeline to the next, you’ll enjoy it immensely.

02.
Get everything set up and organized before. If you’re supposed to decorate the venue the day-of, make sure that’s being done by people who are not part of your party or hangout group. Get everything gathered together in a box or bags and give them to the person in charge of that the week before - not the day of. Don’t even have those with you while you’re getting ready - only have your personal details with you that you want photographed.

03.
Steam / Iron all your clothes the week-before - not the day-of!

04.
Come up with your list of food and drinks you want to have on-hand the day-of!

05.
Pack a bag for the night before, night after, and day after!

07.
I take a very journalistic approach to photography. That means I very rarely move things if it means I’ll miss a moment. I’m always looking for things as they naturally happen - but I will also point things out if they’ll make the photos turn out better. So I might ask your hair and makeup artist to set up in front of a window or even on the porch if the weather is gorgeous and the light is perfect - I will definitely turn off all the lights in the space you’re getting ready because mixing light sources (window and lamp) makes for odd photos. Other than that, we’ll let things happen as they happen! Sometimes this stresses people out because they want to fix things before I take a photo, or they worry they’re in the way as they’re walking around. If you feel like some of your friends might find this stressful, let them know beforehand that they have nothing to worry about - that they can just enjoy themselves!

08.
Keeping things tidy : If the above sounds like this will stress you out - like having clutter in the background of photos - let me and your friends know and we’ll make sure we keep things tidy!

09.
Hire a day-of wedding coordinator. This should not be someone you were already going to invite to the wedding. Almost all wedding plannings offer day-of wedding coordinating, so if you don’t want to spring for a full month or full-service wedding planner, ask about day-of coordinating!

I did not have a day-of coordinator and it is the one and only thing I wish I had. Everything on our wedding day fell on my Mom and I felt like I didn’t spend the time with her that I wanted to. She isn’t naturally bossy, so I know it was uncomfortable for her, too. It would have been great to have someone else to stay on top of everything.

I talk a lot about not having a timeline and doing whatever the heck you want on a wedding day - but if what you want is to do a ton of stuff, then please have a timeline and a coordinator!

Here are links to Virginia Wedding Planners

It’s Your Day

WeddinG MUSE

PEARL EVENTS

Atlas & Ember

 So, the wedding day is over!

It probably went so quickly and now it’s time for recovery or your honeymoon!
within 48 hours of your wedding, I’ll be posting / sending sneak peeks of a few of your wedding photos so you can share them all you want!

Then, 6 - 8 weeks after your wedding you’ll get your entire online gallery.
You’ll be able to send this out to family and friends, order prints online, and look at them on there forever.